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Specialties include (but not limited to) Childhood and attachment trauma in intimate relationships, infidelity, high conflict in intimate relationships, LGBTQ.

Hi there, my name is Dana Vince. I am the owner and founder of Healing Hearts Counseling and I’d like to share a little about myself and my journey of building this practice. I grew up on Long Island in New York. After serving in the United States Army for 4 years, I moved to Tampa, Florida where I earned my masters degree in Counseling. It was in Florida in 2006 that I started Healing Hearts Counseling. I knew from a very young age that I wanted to work with couples. I saw in my own life how people who love each other end up hurting each other and I wanted to understand this better and help people learn to love one another well. I wanted to learn how to help people heal their wounded places. I have always had a soft place in my heart for others’ pain. I wanted to understand more about how this love thing works and why it’s so hard. It has become my life’s work to counsel couples and families on how to communicate in ways that nurture one another and form deeper bonds in their relationships. It is important to me to provide a safe and confidential environment where couples and families can talk about the difficult and sometimes painful issues that are causing problems in their lives.

I had my degree and got the appropriate ongoing training to become a couples counselor, but the ones who have given me the most valuable education have been all the couples I have worked with over the years. I never take for granted the trust others place in me to walk their journey with them. I moved to Knoxville in 2010 and it was at that time that I began training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy. That brought a whole new level of understanding and useable tools that I began to implement in my practice. And while I knew the research behind this method was strong, nothing compared to seeing with my own eyes the incredible healing impact this type of therapy had on the couples I was working with and in my own relationships. So I continued my training and efforts to master this model of therapy and in 2012 I became an EFT supervisor and started training other therapists.

It was at this time that my practice had grown beyond my capacity. Being only one person with only so many hours in the day, I had to start turning people away. It tore me up inside to turn people away who were reaching out for help, especially knowing I had such a powerful and effective way to help people get out of pain and distress. So I began hiring and training clinicians to be a part of my practice to see the clients I couldn’t see. This gave me great peace of mind because I could help more people and I knew they were getting the same quality care that I myself aim to provide through trusted colleagues working with me using the same effective model of couples therapy.

As the practice began to grow, it soon became overwhelming to continue to run the practice, teach and train therapists and still do the work I love and find most fulfilling, spending time with and helping individuals and couples heal.

In 2019 I brought on Adam York as my partner. When I met Adam I quickly saw why he had the reputation in Knoxville he had as an incredible helping professional. I got to know Adam well by supervising him in his learning of the Emotionally Focused Therapy model. An already highly educated and experienced therapist, I had urged Adam to go to the training for EFT knowing it would be a great fit and that it would transform the amazing work he was already doing. As I sat and watched his therapy tapes with him, I got to observe what an incredibly compassionate and gifted therapist he is. In doing other projects with Adam, I also got to observe that Adam is a really hard worker with strong ethics and integrity and is a natural leader. With his shared values and vision for how to serve couples and the Knoxville community, I knew he was the perfect fit for what I was looking for in a partner.

Now together, we continue to grow our team of incredibly compassionate therapists who share our passion for helping couples and families and are eager to learn and serve alongside of us. We personally pick and train each therapist that comes into this practice. It is of utmost importance to me that our clinicians share our vision and uphold our values of helping individuals and couples heal and find the connection and joy with one another that they long for.

Specialties include (but not limited to) Chrisitan counseling, infidelity, men’s issues, sex/porn addiction

Hi, my name is Adam York and I am the co-owner of Healing Hearts Counseling. I graduated from Johnson University with my Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and Professional Counseling, and I am currently pursuing my doctorate with the University of Tennessee.

My life’s work is to help people connect. In addition to my work in private practice, I work as the clinical director for Healthy Connections trying to strengthen relationships all over Knoxville through workshops, mentoring, and supervision. In addition to working with couples, I enjoy supervising therapists seeking to work with individuals, couples, and families. I primarily work from the perspective of emotionally focused therapy, believing that emotion drives the dance between partners, and that we all crave connection and fear isolation.

I have felt the deep confusion that occurs from the pain caused by those closest to us and the deep healing that occurs in the presence of a loving and nurturing relationship. I am passionate to help couples connect, whether they are fighting everyday or struggling to talk about small things. I started to hear about Dana Vince a few years back through therapists and clients of hers. Time and time again, I heard stories of dramatic reconciliation and renewed romance in couples who many other therapists might have written off as hopeless. I continued to hear stories from both men and women of Dana really understanding them and their relationship better than anyone ever had. I reached out to consult with her and quickly discovered that she has a relentless passion for couples and for helping therapists serve them well. I had read about emotionally focused therapy in graduate school, but had not pursued advanced training until Dana had recommended it. I have been supervised or received training from some of the most prominent national leaders in couples therapy and quickly realized that right in our backyard in Knoxville, we had a therapist with every bit as keen an insight into couples relationships as I had ever experienced. She understands couples better than they understand themselves, and more importantly she deeply cares about their relationship and them as people. She is widely known as the most gifted couples therapist in town, and when she asked me to partner with her in practice, I was incredibly flattered and overjoyed at the possibility of creating a space where couples relationships are given new life. I am so excited to join with Dana and the family at Healing Hearts Counseling to help the dream that couples imagine on their wedding day to become the reality that they get to live with every day.

My wife and I have been married since 2006, and we have two boys that we adopted from birth in 2011 and 2016. Do not be surprised if you bump into me and my wife at a sports match or movie with my older son, and if you see a small child shooting basketball for an hour or more, that is my younger son, and he will not talk to you much because he is really focused on his craft. When not with our kids, my wife and I enjoy playing strategic board games, working out, and traveling whenever we can.

Specialities include (but not limited to): marital conflict, grief, prenatal and postpartum distress.

I am a licensed psychologist practicing within the Knoxville, TN community. While I will always remain a Midwesterner at heart, I first fell in love with the charm of Tennessee while studying Psychology at Vanderbilt University. In 2016, I obtained a doctorate in Clinical Psychology at Adler University. Both the South and Midwest share the values of family and a sense of community, which are important to me. It is an honor to support individuals and couples navigating life’s challenges.

After experiencing the devastation and ripple effect of loss, I knew that my life’s passion was to help others feel connected and whole once again. In working with me you will come to find that empathy, compassion, and care are the cornerstones of who I am as a therapist and as a person.  I am truly dedicated to helping my clients heal past and present wounds and live the life they desire and deserve.  Being a licensed psychologist at Healing Hearts Counseling allows me to work alongside and consult with relationship experts whom I respect tremendously and continue to hone specialization in relationship concerns, grief, trauma, and infertility.

While each couple comes through our doors with a unique set of experiences and perspectives, they are not alone in the struggles they face to feel more connected or heard by their partner. You might find yourself in a rut exhausted by engaging in the same argument over and over again or feel misunderstood as if you and your partner are speaking a different language. It is common to respond by either pulling away to avoid conflict and keep the peace or react by lashing out in frustration deep down wanting to know if your partner still cares.  These negative relationship patterns can lead to feelings of disconnection and may take a toll on your partnership and happiness.  I assist couples by helping them to better understand this cycle and team up against the pattern versus blaming one another.  I also provide safety to be more vulnerable with your partner in a way that they can hear, understand, and receive.  Ultimately, our goal is to re-build safety, intimacy, connection, and fulfillment together.

As an individual facing loss, divorce, trauma, or infertility it may feel that the world as you know it has been shattered with no roadmap to guide you in moving forward.  Those around you may not know what to say or how to best support you.  I am here to bear witness to your pain and help you to feel more understood and less alone.  I assist clients in making meaning of experiences, reconstructing their vision of the future, relinquishing feelings of guilt and shame.

If you have come to our site you are making a brave step towards change and I look forward to taking the first step with you!

Welcome to the Healing Hearts website…you are not here by coincidence. You are here for any number of reasons:  Hurt, despair, confusion, betrayal, or one of the myriad maladies that afflict humans and our relationships.

You have come to the right place. Healing Hearts is a unique group of educated, trained, experienced, and compassionate therapists. I am one of them.

I am passionate about pre-marital and just-married counseling to help you start strong, and helping you strengthen or repair your existing marriage so that it is even stronger.

I have been married for more than 48 years. My wife and I have 3 grown children and 5 grandchildren. I have worked with couples for more than 45 years as a pastor, conference and retreat leader, therapist in agency and private practice settings, and as a Military Family Life Counselor on 7 assignments to military bases around the world. Most recently I have been a therapist at a large prison where I daily encountered men who were the product of and themselves involved in unhealthy, even destructive relationships.

I have a bachelor’s degree in Biblical Education, a Master’s in Counseling and Human Development, and a Ph.D. in Family Studies. I have a Biblical worldview but respect other worldviews. I do not impose my faith or beliefs on anyone. However, if you want to explore and leverage Biblical faith, I can certainly help.

We are created for connection, born to bond, and exist most fully in relationship. Marriage is the most powerful force in the world for either healing or hurt. No one enters a committed relationship entirely free of woundedness and in marriage those wounds can be healed. The result is an astounding depth of self- and other awareness that liberates, heals, and empowers individuals and couples for a love never before imagined.

As a therapist, I want to provide you with a safe place and unconditional positive regard. I will give you the best of my education, experience, and self to equip you for the healing and health you crave and deserve.

“You can’t go back and begin again, but you can start from here and make a brand-new end.”

Specialties include (but not limited to): relational disconnection and distress, trauma, and Christian counseling.

From professional and personal experience, I know that life does not always go how we expect it to. I am passionate about helping others make sense of unexpected circumstances and losses that can feel disorienting and overwhelming. As I journey alongside individuals and couples processing through unwanted and painful issues, one of my highest priorities is to provide a safe and empathic space where those sitting with me feel seen, heard, and respected. I’ve worked with a variety of life stages spanning from ages 5 – 70, as well as problems related to anxiety, depression, relational problems, and specific issues such as healing from abuse, divorce, and battling chronic illness. My heart and hope is to work with clients toward the wholeness and healing they desire.

For issues that feel like they won’t budge, as well as in response to traumatic experiences, I use EMDR to help individuals process what can otherwise leave a person feeling stuck. With couples who feel stuck in continuously frustrating and disappointing arguments, I utilize EFT to move from these old norms toward creating new ones.

When I first learned about EFT, I realized my brain was already wired to value emotional connection and attachment in the way this EFT does. This therapeutic model gave me language and a framework to help others toward the connection they desire and long for. I have seen that EMDR couples beautifully with an emotionally focused perspective, helping individuals and couples to find freedom from trauma and problems they can otherwise feel defeated by.

I graduated from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary with a M.A. in Christian Counseling in 2018. In May of 2020, I graduated from Gordon-Conwell with an additional M.A. in Biblical Studies, having focused my study on a scriptural understanding of human brokenness and God’s overarching redemptive narrative. Before my time in seminary, I served in campus ministry for five years, which grew my desire to walk more deeply alongside others in the struggles and pain that often surprises us in life. I am also a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate in North Carolina.

Knoxville became home for me in the Spring of 2020. I have lived in a myriad of places in and outside of the US. While I love travel and adventuring to new places, so much movement the past couple of decades in my life has left me content and grateful to settle down near family (and the mountains!) here in Tennessee. In my spare time I might be playing piano, taking a ballet class, or learning something new. As much as I love indoor hobbies, my favorite place to be is outdoors. I’m often out for a walk or a hike with my husband, and if not we’re not out exploring, we are likely enjoying some calm as we sip on coffee, tea, or enjoy a meal together.

Specialties include (but not limited to): Infidelity, divorce recovery and work with LGBTQ couples.

Love and relationships can feel very confusing at times. It is my goal to encourage, support, teach and empower couples toward whole-hearted living and conscious relationships. I am dedicated to helping couples find joy, meaning, success and connection through the practice of mindful, purposeful living and loving. While intimate relationships long for new levels of consciousness and commitment, even the smallest steps can bring amazing ripple effects to couples. Seeing the small ripple effects occur in an emotionally safe space is what makes the work that I do so rewarding and fulfilling. Both therapeutically and personally, I am committed to never stop learning and growing and strive to instill hope and empower change in all of my couples. 

I have two Masters degrees in General Psychology and Professional Counseling. I am also a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in the State of Illinois and a Licensed Professional Counselor, Mental Health Service Provider in the State of Tennessee. I am a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist and a Certified Therapeutic Crisis Intervention Trainer since 2016. 

I have 15 years’ experience in the field of therapy and mental health. My experience ranges from corrections, adolescent and adult residential, detox units, teaching at a college level, couples and family therapy, group work, and leadership. 

I grew up in Southern Illinois and relocated to Knoxville in 2012. I immediately fell in love with the mountains, outdoor life and East Tennessee living. Outside of the office, I enjoy a relaxed life with my husband, two dogs and a cat. My hobbies include baking, reading, hiking, fitness, traveling and occasionally a good Netflix binge. 

Specialties include (but are not limited to): marital conflict, family dynamics, parental wounds, and racial trauma, spiritual direction/soul-care.

Hi! My name is Doug Messer. Thanks so much for your willingness to consider working with us at Healing Hearts. Whether you are an individual or a couple in the midst of a challenging season, I know how difficult it can be to even make the decision to go to a counselor. A number of years ago, I was in the same position. My personal experiences and perspective influence my therapeutic approach, and I am always grateful for the opportunity to process life with individuals and couples at various stages of life’s journey. I love helping people understand and value the dynamics of their life story in a safe, nonjudgmental environment, while also inviting them to explore new paths they would like to consider and healthier patterns they hope to establish, for themselves or as a couple.

I have over 20 years of experience in working with a wide range of people from various backgrounds and stages of life in both pastoral care and clinical counseling settings. My primary therapeutic approach is Person-Centered which is present-oriented and enables individuals and couples to realize their internal strengths and resources. I also utilize Narrative Therapy which can help clients externalize problems while realizing their ability to re-author their own story. In addition, I draw from various other therapeutic approaches as is appropriate to each client’s particular needs and goals. Understanding and utilization of various approaches allows me to work with each client in the most effective manner.

I have a Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Wake Forest University. I also have a Master’s degree in Religion from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary. Finally, from many years ago, I received a Bachelor’s degree in Political Science with a minor in English from The Ohio State University.I was raised in Cincinnati, OH but have lived in Knoxville for almost 20 years. My wife and I are the parents of four children who range in age from 20 to 8. I enjoy reading, music (especially live), sports, and humor, and working on home-projects. I love the long-running British television show, Dr. Who, and find that watching the show, The Office, is a source of both self-care and “comfort food” for me. I also have a special place in my heart for the late comedian Chris Farley.

Hello! My name is Amanda Loven, and I am a Marriage and Family Therapist. As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I work systemically with individuals, couples, and full families to obtain the goals of each client. Did you know that your past attachment history can influence your current relationships? Finding these wounds can help in the success of connecting intimacy to your partner, and vice versa. I am passionate about working with couples and their struggles with sexual intimacy, sexual health, connecting through intimacy, and regaining connection through vulnerability.

I decided to become a therapist several years ago when I was a camp counselor for high school students. Discovering the brokenness that stemmed from sexual trauma (i.e. attachment injuries) with these young women pushed me to change my career path to psychology. After I graduated, I craved more knowledge of the field and decided to enroll in the graduate program at Lee University. Here, I learned of the wonderful world of Emotionally Focused Therapy and began to practice this in my therapy sessions with couples and families.

My favorite aspect of Emotionally Focused Therapy is the research and science that backs up this theory that change begins with vulnerability and connecting through emotion. With such a high rate of change and success in relationships, how could I not be drawn to learn more? I have been blessed with the opportunity to join the team at Healing Hearts Counseling, where Emotionally Focused Therapy thrives!

My goal is to bring a non-judgmental stance to the therapy room. I want my clients to feel safe while they invite me to be in the passenger seat along next to them.

Specialities include (but not limited to): marital conflict, grief and bereavement, and LGBTQ.

As a marriage and family therapist, I truly believe everything someone does makes sense in context. The thoughts one thinks, the emotions one feels, and the actions one takes are legitimate. How do we make sense of our own thoughts, feelings, and actions as well as those of our partners? My goal as a therapist is to create a safe, open space for couples to explore their own vulnerabilities both as individuals and as partners. Through vulnerability, love and connection can be lasting.

One area I feel called to is working with the bereaved. Death and loss scrambles our world in such an unpredictable and difficult way, and we are never truly prepared as humans to deal with loss. I have experienced the impacts of great loss in my own life and have been able to witness just how much it affects couples, families and individuals.

I received my Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy at Valdosta State University. My interest in studying and becoming a therapist stems from my own compassion towards others and venturing through life’s journey of love and loss. After living in Georgia my whole life, I began expanding my vision and started networking in Tennessee, where I ultimately discovered Healing Hearts Counseling. Instantly, I knew it was a good fit based on the practice’s therapeutic orientation and genuine, welcoming atmosphere. Knowing that I am able to collaborate and grow with other clinicians who are just as passionate about this work is an enthralling opportunity.

I spend most of my spare time making music and immersing myself in the world of film. I am always seeking to connect and relate with others through the art of storytelling

Seeking help and walking into a counseling room can sometimes feel intimidating and like walking into unknown territory, not knowing what to expect or plan for.  With this understanding, I desire to create the counseling relationship to be filled with a sense of safety, comfort, and grace where you can just breathe and be yourself.  I believe this allows for more personal growth and deeper connection with our self, which in turn can allow for deeper connection and healthier communication with a partner, family, and friends.  My hope is that the counseling relationship can be a place where we can begin to understand, explore, and hold grace for the truth about ourselves and those who we hold near and dear to our hearts.

I have a special interest and passion for walking alongside those who are experiencing the hurdles of work-related distance with their partner, and those experiencing the various hurdles the military lifestyle can add to a relationship.  My personal experience growing up in a military home, marrying into the active-duty lifestyle, and transitioning from a military lifestyle to a civilian lifestyle instills in me an appreciation for the creativity necessary to creating stronger relationships that are experiencing these unique obstacles.  I hold a lot of hope for these relationships, because I truly believe that the unique obstacles experienced also provide a special opportunity to further deepen the relationship and appreciation for one another. I believe it is truly possible to use those obstacles to our advantage as we journey through gaining deeper connection with our self, partner, and family.

I received my Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling through Regent University and have been committed towards becoming a competent licensed professional since graduation. My motto that personally drives me to continuously pursue excellence is, “Provide the kind of services I would want my own family to receive.”

Beyond my love for counseling, I also hold a postgraduate certificate in Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA), in which I enjoy delving into the principles of ABA to improve the quality of life for families and individuals.  In my personal time I love spending time with my horse, my dogs, church family, creating music, hiking with my husband or doing house projects, and doing anything artsy!  I also love to travel and take a break by checking out some new scenery!

Hello, thank you so much for taking the time to visit our website. I am honored that you chose to learn more about me and why relationship counseling is a passion of mine. We are all in relationships, whether it is with yourself or with an employer or with a loved one. Regardless of the type, relationships can present challenges. I hope from reading this you are encouraged to allow me to journey with you to the destination of your choosing. It would be my pleasure.

Currently, I am a Clinical Mental Health Counseling graduate student intern here at Healing Hearts Counseling. Although I am starting my internship, this is not the beginning of being in service to others. My entire life, I have enjoyed helping others, even to the point of getting in trouble for doing so. I was scolded for being too nice when trading away my toys to other kids and getting less in return; fancy that.

My mom says I have my grandmother’s heart. As a child, my grandmother would receive so many greeting cards year-round from many people all addressing her as Mother Isom. As a young boy I’d ask her, “Grand-mommy, how many children do you have?” She’d reply while laughing, “It’s Grandmother and they call me mother as a term of endearment to show appreciation for the support I have offered.” She taught me God wants us to help one another and it is important to support those in the community as we are all connected. Some of those people still send her cards to this day.

Some thirty years later, I am purposed to support people in their relationships. I have experienced the divorce of my parents, being in a blended family, and marriage (see my wife’s bio above, she’s pretty cool☺). I’ve even had to live with myself, and I promise I was a handful. I can testify that through counseling and the use of Emotionally Focused Therapy, you will have amazing discoveries and experience purposeful growth.

Please join our growing community here at Healing Hearts Counseling. Together, let’s restore and deepen the joy and hope in your relationships. I promise to offer a safe space for those opportunities to be grasped. You deserve it. Your family deserves it. You and your family are important to me and I am at your service.

Warm Regards,

Mac, your friendly neighborhood counselor